I know this isn’t a book review blog but this book deserves some attention. I know that soooo many people have read it and raved about it. I was working at a table for an event one day and reading it and almost everyone that passed by said something along the lines of “Isn’t that a great book? Have you gotten to ___ part (fill in with all sorts of different things) yet?”
Now, I have to admit I had a hard time reading this at
first. I kept putting it down and just not getting real into it. But the
encouragement from my roommates kept me going and sooner or later I just
couldn’t put it down.
There are so many reasons this book makes me
think. Besides the obvious, historical relationship between white and black
people in the south, I think it has a lot to say about free thinking.
Skeeter in the book breaks the norms of a woman in that time in history.
Speaking her mind, not just getting married and attending bridge club like what
is expected of her. She thinks for herself and acts as an individual instead of
just trying to fit in with what everyone else is doing. She, of course, feels
lonely at times but knows in her heart that she would have been miserable just
marrying Stuart and being part of the league, playing tennis and doing routine
things. It got me thinking. We as a
society are the same way with clothes, food, activities etc.
We need to stop and think for ourselves sometimes. Ask
yourself “why am I doing/wearing/saying
the things I am?” Do I want to or does society tell me to. I will admit I
am sucked in by these things all the time. For example: wearing certain brands
of clothes, thinking I need to wear certain jewelry or make-up or people will
think differently of me. So what! If I don’t feel like
putting on my usual mascara and taming my hair, so be it. If someone things I’m
loco or poor, fine. That’s their problem not mine… right?
I challenge you to think today, about the things you’re just
going through the motions and doing without even using your own judgment. Be the wonderful person you were made to be,
not what your mother, grandmother, best friend, teacher, co-worker or idol
tells you to be.
“There could never be
a more beautiful you, you were made to serve a purpose that only you can do,
there could never be a more beautiful you”









